Letting Go: Morning Hassles and Responsibility

by Dr. Jane Nelsen

“Jimmy, time to get up! C’mon, Jimmy, get up now! This is the last time I’m going to call you!”

Sound familiar? Mornings in Jimmy’s home are much like mornings in other homes around the world—hectic, argumentative, and full of hassles.  Jimmy has not learned to be responsible because Mom is too busy being responsible for him.  It gets worse as the morning continues.

“How should I know where your books are?  Where did you leave them? How many times have I told you to put them where they belong? If you don’t hurry up and eat, you’re just going to have to go to school hungry. You’re still not dressed, and the bus will be here in five minutes! I’m not going to take you to school if you’re not ready—and I mean it! (While driving Jimmy to school), “Jimmy, when will you ever learn?  This is absolutely the last time I’ll drive you to school when you miss the bus.  You’ve got to learn to be more responsible!”