Compliments Create a Positive Atmosphere in Homes and Classrooms

by Jane Nelsen

Compliments and appreciations bring us closer together. Finding ways to compliment your children can be a very valuable parenting tool. So often we are focused on what our children have done wrong. This week focus on what your children have done right and give them an appropriate compliment. “I appreciate how quickly you get dressed and ready for school.” “I notice how kindly you cared for Anna when she felt sad, I bet it helped her feel better.” “Thank you for setting the table.” You will be amazed how this simple act will change the atmosphere in your home.

It is also important for children to learn how to give compliments. Siblings don’t have any trouble bickering and putting each other down, but they struggle with the idea of appreciating each other? Maybe it all boils down to training. Giving and receiving compliments is a skill that needs to be taught and practiced. Family meetings provide that opportunity.