Humiliation in the classroom

Q. My son (Talen) currently attends a Catholic school. He is in the Kindergarten. He has a very strong personality and wants his way ALL of the time in class and wants to do things in his own time. He gives his teacher a hard time and sometimes gets very angry (arms tightly crossed over his chest, red face, crying). This is the problem: About 3 weeks ago, 4 boys in his class were “acting up” (including my son), and they were all reprimanded in front of the entire class by their teacher. She told these boys that “since the girls are behaving so nicely today, I am going to go home and bring in wigs and skirts to dress (these 4 boys) up the next day in school so they can feel how it is to behave themselves nicely (like the girls). My son took immediate offense to her tactic and stood up in front of the entire class and crossed his arms tightly to his chest, face turned beet red, and pretended to shoot an arrow at her. She wrote me a note stating that my son needed psychological help and she referred to him as “a possible Columbine High student to come back and shoot her down.” I am totally appalled with this teacher’s tactics in her classroom